Many older men find that they ejaculate less forcibly, the premonition that they are about to reach orgasm is less strong, and it takes longer for them to become sexually aroused again. These changes are normal consequences of growing old and should not cause concern.
Of course, sexual problems can arise in old age, as they can at any other age. The problems are least when you and your partner both enjoy sex and both have the same interest in sex. The problems may become marked if your partner dies and you are left alone and lonely. Society (and family) is censorious of older people who form new relationships, particularly if there is a disparity between the ages of the partners, and especially if a man wishes to remarry. The obstruction by middle-aged children may be praiseworthy, as your partner may be unsuitable, or may be due to their own selfishness as they fear you will change your will, or you (and they) will be mocked by friends and neighbours.
Discuss your relationship with them, but in the end make up your own mind; they do not own you, and your happiness is important.
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